Jewelry Boxes & Organizing
I’ve been looking at jewelry boxes and ways to organize jewelry. My way of having it all over my dresser top doesn’t seem to be working. Since I keep losing pieces or getting things tangled up. Have you ever had that happen?
I saw these and thought they looked like interesting and beautiful ways to organize jewelry. How do you organize your jewelry? These ideas are from Viva Terra, a site that I’ve been getting lost in lately.
Every Song Will Sound Like a Break-Up Song
June 1997
My man of many colors and I have been dating now for 2 months. I met his parents, albeit not totally on the greatest first impression. I got lost on the way to his house for our second official date & was late. I think his Mom thought I wasn’t coming. But really I just got lost, I am not great with directions, paying close attention to turn-offs, or apparently anything related to getting anywhere on time. Then we ended up talking & hanging out until the early hours of the morning. Yea, that’s how I met his Dad for the first time in the early hours of the morning. Needless to say if I could have pushed redo on that I would have.
And we had the “dating no one else talk.” We were a “couple” & it felt overwhelming.
Here we were 18 & 19 and part of me was terrified that this was “The One”, which is ridiculous because who meets “The One” when they are that young? And so I did what any normal 18 year old does I considered breaking up with him.
Little did I know he was thinking the same thing.
We went out to see a charity event, with his Mom & sister. It was a beautiful day and after we went to dinner. The restaurant had some of the fanciest pizzas I had ever heard of in my entire life. But over dinner he mentioned needing “to talk” and that caused red flags to jump up around me, waving & shouting “THIS IS NOT GOOD!! IT’S CODE! RUN NOW!” But I didn’t run instead we finished dinner & headed to a park to sit outside, enjoy the weather & talk.
Yea, let’s just say the talk went from not great to OH MY GOD WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH YOU??? Very quickly.
Mr. Adorable decided to break up with me.
His reason “I am not ready to get married yet. I’m planning on applying to school in Chicago still and moving. Maybe we can keep in contact and who knows what the future will hold.” He also pointed out the fact that I often joked when under pressure instead of letting him in, whatever. (Ok, I admit it, he may have been totally right on that last part being open about my true feelings doesn’t come easy to me).
HUH?? Who said anything about marriage, who said anything about forever and wait aren’t I supposed to be breaking up with him? I was stunned, hurt and really it felt like a sucker punch to the gut. I couldn’t believe that a) he was feeling overwhelmed like I was b) that I felt so awful considering I thought about breaking up with him c) OH MY GOD I LOVE HIM, WAS I CRAZY FOR THINKING ABOUT BREAKING UP.
After finished “talking” which consisted mostly of him talking & me not knowing what to say back, which I’m pretty sure is the first time (and maybe the only time) in my life I’ve been without words. We got back into the car & headed to my house.
That’s when the tears started. I couldn’t control them. It was awful. I mean that type of crying that when it happens you want to look away but you can’t because it’s you. I was hyperventilating and felt like my heart had been ripped out.
A song by Jewel came on the radio. She was singing “You were meant for me & was I was meant for you.” It was all about star-crossed love that was meant to be but failed.
Then he said what has to be stupidest thing a person has ever said on the face of the Earth during a break-up moment.
“You know, for a while, every song on the radio is going to sound like a break up song.”
I felt like punching him at that moment & instead hit the dashboard. As did I began to find my voice & oh did I find it. I let my guard down, the jokes stopped & I let him in. I am not sure he was ready for the tirade that came next. It went something to the effect of:
“What? Are you insane? Every song doesn’t sound like a break up song. THIS IS A BREAK UP SONG! And for the record I am supposed to be breaking up with you tonight. Don’t look so surprised with a “Huh” look on your face. That’s right I break up with you. You don’t break up with me. This is not the way this is supposed to happen. And who said I wanted to get married? Did I say that? No you just assumed that I want to marry you. Well let me tell you I don’t want to marry you or anyone. I am not planning on staying here in Michigan. I am leaving. I am doing something different. So you can go to Chicago & remember that I broke up with you. And did you think that this was going to be a quiet car ride back to drop me off, because really you had your say now you are going to listen to me.”
He looked blindsided, I think he thought I wasn’t going to say anything on the way home, & he was so quiet.
After 15 minutes straight of me basically laying into him, he spoke and then I spoke. We ended up talking for hours. I said if we remained friends, that was fine, but we’d only be friends (nothing else), that I loved him & if being friends was all there was then that was something I was willing to accept. He said that if that’s what I wanted he was OK with that but really he wasn’t sure what he wanted anymore, because being apart wouldn’t make him happier, he loved me & wanted to be with me. Being just friends wasn’t the same as seeing if there was a future together in with me.
In the end we didn’t break up.
Instead we talked about our actual feelings, like adults, which was scary & beautiful at the same time.
And of course, every time that song came on the radio after I couldn’t help but lean over with a little smile and say “You know, for a while, every song on the radio is going to sound like a break up song.”
[this is part of my “how I met your father” series]
Porcelain Ice Cream Cones
These reusable porcelain ice cream cones might be a nice gift for someone who loves ice cream for eating with or decoration. But I’m not sure they’d be kid friendly if dropped from little hands. I love ice cream though. How about you? Do you love ice cream?
via grasshopper510



