Pioneer Woman & Dooce: The Oprah Effect in Radical MommyBlogging

by beth on July 22, 2009

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I like to read about women in media, par­tic­u­larly moth­ers in media both per­son­ally & pro­fes­sion­ally these are areas of inter­est to me. Per­son­ally because I am a mom. Pro­fes­sion­ally because I have an inter­est in the rep­re­sen­ta­tions of moth­ers in media reflect cul­tural ideas about moth­ers. I may be a new­bie blog­ger but I am not a new­bie on the dis­course about women in media. What I have been notic­ing is that lately there has been a boom on moth­ers as media moguls and media creators.

I wrote about this ear­lier this month dis­cussing the Rad­i­cal­ism of Mom­my­Blog­ging, based on sev­eral sources (as noted in that post) that I had come across this topic in. I was won­der­ing what it means to be rad­i­cal & I stand by the fact that more voices need to be part of the dia­logue about moth­er­hood. In that I also noted that there had been a lot of dis­cus­sion over com­mer­cial­ism in Mom­my­Blogs. Now it seems that there is another layer to the com­mer­cial­ism side that I don’t think has been as dis­cussed in the debate but per­haps it also allows for a dif­fer­ent form of rad­i­cal­ism. It’s moms as media moguls. I mean all out media empires.

Yes, I know there has been a recent blow-up on the whole too much PR or should I write the drive for PR tak­ing over life for Mom­my­Blog­gers (caus­ing a feel­ing of burnout). Mom­Dot has even orga­nized a black­out chal­lenge of no PR for a week. This only adds more fuel to the exist­ing debate over too much PR, who’s at fault for the feel­ing that PR is out of con­trol, or the way com­mer­cial­ism has become part of Mom­my­Blog­ging & if Moms in the Blo­gos­phere still have their authen­tic Mom vibe is even show­ing up in Newsweek & now The Wall Street Jour­nal has picked up on. I’ve read many blogs about the topic & I don’t think I have enough space to list them all, sev­eral are in my Awe­some Google Friends list (go check them out!).

How­ever, what I haven’t seen being dis­cussed very much is the grow­ing num­ber of women who are cre­at­ing media empires out of blog­ging. Women as media moguls in gen­eral is a pretty recent inven­tion. We can thank Oprah & her empire. She even helped the likes of Rachel Raymove into a whole new stratos­phere with her own empire and who is also all over the place these days. These women and their fel­low media moguls have their hand­prints all over the media, while main­tain­ing their own voices.

We have other women who cre­ated spe­cific empires that helped chal­lenge indus­try stan­dards about women as lead­ers we can­not ignore their con­tri­bu­tions, like Mary Kay Ash found of the Mary Kay cos­met­ics com­pany, and while many of these empires use media they are not solely focused on the cre­ation of media. We also have women who are involved as CEOs in large com­pa­nies break­ing glass ceil­ings, for exam­ple Indra Nooyi Chair­man & CEO of Pepsi Co., but again these women are not the cre­ators of these com­pa­nies. And again while these com­pa­nies engage media they do not have the sole pur­pose of cre­at­ing media.

The power the media has in our mod­ern world can­not be ignored. We come into con­tact with it daily, it helps to shape and inform our world­views. When women enter into help­ing cre­ate media they help to cre­ate a cul­tural rep­re­sen­ta­tion of them­selves and other women. Women who are blog­ging par­tic­i­pate in the com­mer­cial side, even if unin­ten­tion­ally because they are putting out their own views. Fur­ther, women do break down a bar­rier that has existed by when they engage the cor­po­rate world on their own terms offer­ing their own voices.

Essen­tially we are see­ing an Oprah effect in the rad­i­cal act of Mom­my­Blog­ging, it’s her effect on media that has changed the way women cre­ate media empires. It’s also impor­tant to note that Oprah has fea­tured many Mommy Blog­gers on her show as well. When we look at Mom­my­Blog­ging we see that a few names have being a lot of attention.

For exam­ple, Heather B. Arm­strong cre­ator of the blog Dooce was just named num­ber 26 on the Forbes List of The Most Influ­en­tial Women in Media, some­thing unheard of a decade ago. She has been all over the media and her blog has a loyal fol­low­ing that val­ues her per­spec­tive. The Pio­neer Woman, Ree Drum­mond, just launched an online cook­ing com­mu­nity called Tasty Kitchen, which accord­ing to Fed­er­ated Media had 6,900 new mem­bers in the first 6 days alone. Show­ing she is devel­op­ing a stronger online pres­ence by the day.

Each of these women have page views in the mil­lions on their respec­tive blogs, are rumored to being mak­ing mil­lions, and are branch­ing out every­where with their media influ­ences. Chances are in a year if your neigh­bor who can’t even turn a com­puter today doesn’t know who they are now she will know who these women are by sim­ply read­ing about them in reg­u­lar old print or see­ing them on tele­vi­sion. As their media influ­ence is still growing.

While I’m aware both Heather & Ree do not rep­re­sent the aver­age blogger’s reach, the real­ity is they are devel­op­ing media empires & in turn they show that the voice of Mom­my­Blog­gers can be far-reaching if they main­tain their own dis­tinct voices. There is the Momver­sa­tion, books being writ­ten from Mom­my­Blog­gers, and ad cam­paigns devel­oped based on their input. The media influ­ence of women and women who are moth­ers is start­ing to take hold.

It should be no shock that the FTC is get­ting involved in the PR moves that have hap­pened in blog­ging & that Moms are tak­ing heat for their roles. It also should be no shock that it’s the whether or not moms are sell-outs that is get­ting the atten­tion ver­sus moms as moguls & the power of the aver­age mom’s voice (which most of us still are, just aver­age moms, not moguls). Also, it should be no shock that there is more effort to con­trol what moms say about life, media, & what’s out in the mar­ket­place. It means that the big guys are get­ting ner­vous about the rad­i­cal shift in media that is start­ing to hap­pen. Yes, rad­i­cal. It is rad­i­cal that women are able to build empires & rad­i­cal that those who come from a per­spec­tive of Mom­my­Blog­ging are start­ing to move into this level of influence.

Now I am won­der­ing in all of this dis­cus­sion if maybe the big­ger ques­tion about com­mer­cial­ism that has now entered into the rad­i­cal­ism of Mom­my­Blog­ging isn’t whether to block it but how to use it? Women in the blo­gos­phere are cre­ators of media whether or not they real­ize, but they are. They deserve to receive proper pay­ment if they do work for com­pa­nies or become hot-spots for ads while they main­tain their voice. Also, women are chang­ing the pri­vate ver­sus pub­lic spheres of work fur­ther shift­ing con­cep­tions of work in this process. Time at home if it is work should be under­stand as such. If women do work and don’t receive proper pay­ment or give up the abil­ity to main­tain their own per­spec­tive, this isn’t rad­i­cal instead it is main­tain­ing the sta­tus quo of women being deval­ued for their con­tri­bu­tions to society.

More­over, Mom­my­Blog­gers can use media to offer their voices chang­ing the way busi­ness & cor­po­rate Amer­ica has looked at moth­ers as part of their demo­graphic. It’s in the dif­fer­ent voices that are being added daily to the con­ver­sa­tion on what it means to be a mom and a woman that there is amaz­ing poten­tial out there to change the dia­logue on moth­er­hood & women. Even if these voices don’t ever make money or if they don’t become media moguls in the long run their voices can shift the way busi­ness is being done & the way women as moth­ers are rep­re­sented because they are start­ing to really be heard. Their writ­ing, good qual­ity writ­ing, can move the the par­a­digm about moth­er­ing.  That alone is a rad­i­cal shift.

*I know the term “Mom­my­Blog­ger” is some­what con­tro­ver­sial; how­ever, I decided to use it because it’s what most peo­ple are famil­iar with.

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1 faemom July 22, 2009 at 5:20 pm

Fascinating post! I think that this whole blog world is fascinating with all those voices out there. So many moms trying to have a voice and trying to make a little money on the side, which is totally fine. It’s hard to feel mature and adult when someone else is bringing home the beacon. It was Heather Armstrong that got me into this because I read an article about her and checked her out. I thought I could do this. Maybe I can’t build an empire like her, but I can Write every day, honing my skills, sharpening my mind until I have time to actually Write that novel. Then I get this added bonus of reading amazing women like you and I forget that the whole reason I started this was to Write because I’m enjoying the conversation.

I think it just goes to remind everyone how powerful moms really are. We always have been. Everyone just forgets.

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2 Frelle July 23, 2009 at 9:07 am

What an amazing and well written post! I just dropped in from a SITS link and I am glad to know about you! I am not well known or popular or savvy, Im new! But I am glad to know your thoughts and some neat new facts about dooce and ree!

I love faemom’s quote above: “I think it just goes to remind everyone how powerful moms really are. We always have been. Everyone just forgets.”

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3 beth July 23, 2009 at 8:20 pm

@faemom–YES!! it’s the conversation we are doing online that should move us, pushing us further in our own writing (although I admit I’ve been struggling to finish those last chapters ugh!), & it’s in the conversation that happens from our writing that we can let the world know how we feel.

@frelle–well I’m pretty new myself :) I agree about faemom’s quote, it’s awesome!

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4 ali July 27, 2009 at 11:07 am

Great post! When I first started reading blogs Dooce was an everyday read for me. But I didn’t even consider having a blog of my own until I found PW–she seemed like ‘everywoman’ to me and made me think that I could do it too. It’s funny because although they are both mommybloggers their blogs are so different from each other. I think it shows that the blogging community is big enough and diversified enough for every one to be involved.

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