
I like to read about women in media, particularly mothers in media both personally & professionally these are areas of interest to me. Personally because I am a mom. Professionally because I have an interest in the representations of mothers in media reflect cultural ideas about mothers. I may be a newbie blogger but I am not a newbie on the discourse about women in media. What I have been noticing is that lately there has been a boom on mothers as media moguls and media creators.
I wrote about this earlier this month discussing the Radicalism of MommyBlogging, based on several sources (as noted in that post) that I had come across this topic in. I was wondering what it means to be radical & I stand by the fact that more voices need to be part of the dialogue about motherhood. In that I also noted that there had been a lot of discussion over commercialism in MommyBlogs. Now it seems that there is another layer to the commercialism side that I don’t think has been as discussed in the debate but perhaps it also allows for a different form of radicalism. It’s moms as media moguls. I mean all out media empires.
Yes, I know there has been a recent blow-up on the whole too much PR or should I write the drive for PR taking over life for MommyBloggers (causing a feeling of burnout). MomDot has even organized a blackout challenge of no PR for a week. This only adds more fuel to the existing debate over too much PR, who’s at fault for the feeling that PR is out of control, or the way commercialism has become part of MommyBlogging & if Moms in the Blogosphere still have their authentic Mom vibe is even showing up in Newsweek & now The Wall Street Journal has picked up on. I’ve read many blogs about the topic & I don’t think I have enough space to list them all, several are in my Awesome Google Friends list (go check them out!).
However, what I haven’t seen being discussed very much is the growing number of women who are creating media empires out of blogging. Women as media moguls in general is a pretty recent invention. We can thank Oprah & her empire. She even helped the likes of Rachel Raymove into a whole new stratosphere with her own empire and who is also all over the place these days. These women and their fellow media moguls have their handprints all over the media, while maintaining their own voices.
We have other women who created specific empires that helped challenge industry standards about women as leaders we cannot ignore their contributions, like Mary Kay Ash found of the Mary Kay cosmetics company, and while many of these empires use media they are not solely focused on the creation of media. We also have women who are involved as CEOs in large companies breaking glass ceilings, for example Indra Nooyi Chairman & CEO of Pepsi Co., but again these women are not the creators of these companies. And again while these companies engage media they do not have the sole purpose of creating media.
The power the media has in our modern world cannot be ignored. We come into contact with it daily, it helps to shape and inform our worldviews. When women enter into helping create media they help to create a cultural representation of themselves and other women. Women who are blogging participate in the commercial side, even if unintentionally because they are putting out their own views. Further, women do break down a barrier that has existed by when they engage the corporate world on their own terms offering their own voices.
Essentially we are seeing an Oprah effect in the radical act of MommyBlogging, it’s her effect on media that has changed the way women create media empires. It’s also important to note that Oprah has featured many Mommy Bloggers on her show as well. When we look at MommyBlogging we see that a few names have being a lot of attention.
For example, Heather B. Armstrong creator of the blog Dooce was just named number 26 on the Forbes List of The Most Influential Women in Media, something unheard of a decade ago. She has been all over the media and her blog has a loyal following that values her perspective. The Pioneer Woman, Ree Drummond, just launched an online cooking community called Tasty Kitchen, which according to Federated Media had 6,900 new members in the first 6 days alone. Showing she is developing a stronger online presence by the day.
Each of these women have page views in the millions on their respective blogs, are rumored to being making millions, and are branching out everywhere with their media influences. Chances are in a year if your neighbor who can’t even turn a computer today doesn’t know who they are now she will know who these women are by simply reading about them in regular old print or seeing them on television. As their media influence is still growing.
While I’m aware both Heather & Ree do not represent the average blogger’s reach, the reality is they are developing media empires & in turn they show that the voice of MommyBloggers can be far-reaching if they maintain their own distinct voices. There is the Momversation, books being written from MommyBloggers, and ad campaigns developed based on their input. The media influence of women and women who are mothers is starting to take hold.
It should be no shock that the FTC is getting involved in the PR moves that have happened in blogging & that Moms are taking heat for their roles. It also should be no shock that it’s the whether or not moms are sell-outs that is getting the attention versus moms as moguls & the power of the average mom’s voice (which most of us still are, just average moms, not moguls). Also, it should be no shock that there is more effort to control what moms say about life, media, & what’s out in the marketplace. It means that the big guys are getting nervous about the radical shift in media that is starting to happen. Yes, radical. It is radical that women are able to build empires & radical that those who come from a perspective of MommyBlogging are starting to move into this level of influence.
Now I am wondering in all of this discussion if maybe the bigger question about commercialism that has now entered into the radicalism of MommyBlogging isn’t whether to block it but how to use it? Women in the blogosphere are creators of media whether or not they realize, but they are. They deserve to receive proper payment if they do work for companies or become hot-spots for ads while they maintain their voice. Also, women are changing the private versus public spheres of work further shifting conceptions of work in this process. Time at home if it is work should be understand as such. If women do work and don’t receive proper payment or give up the ability to maintain their own perspective, this isn’t radical instead it is maintaining the status quo of women being devalued for their contributions to society.
Moreover, MommyBloggers can use media to offer their voices changing the way business & corporate America has looked at mothers as part of their demographic. It’s in the different voices that are being added daily to the conversation on what it means to be a mom and a woman that there is amazing potential out there to change the dialogue on motherhood & women. Even if these voices don’t ever make money or if they don’t become media moguls in the long run their voices can shift the way business is being done & the way women as mothers are represented because they are starting to really be heard. Their writing, good quality writing, can move the the paradigm about mothering. That alone is a radical shift.
*I know the term “MommyBlogger” is somewhat controversial; however, I decided to use it because it’s what most people are familiar with.





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Fascinating post! I think that this whole blog world is fascinating with all those voices out there. So many moms trying to have a voice and trying to make a little money on the side, which is totally fine. It’s hard to feel mature and adult when someone else is bringing home the beacon. It was Heather Armstrong that got me into this because I read an article about her and checked her out. I thought I could do this. Maybe I can’t build an empire like her, but I can Write every day, honing my skills, sharpening my mind until I have time to actually Write that novel. Then I get this added bonus of reading amazing women like you and I forget that the whole reason I started this was to Write because I’m enjoying the conversation.
I think it just goes to remind everyone how powerful moms really are. We always have been. Everyone just forgets.
What an amazing and well written post! I just dropped in from a SITS link and I am glad to know about you! I am not well known or popular or savvy, Im new! But I am glad to know your thoughts and some neat new facts about dooce and ree!
I love faemom’s quote above: “I think it just goes to remind everyone how powerful moms really are. We always have been. Everyone just forgets.”
@faemom–YES!! it’s the conversation we are doing online that should move us, pushing us further in our own writing (although I admit I’ve been struggling to finish those last chapters ugh!), & it’s in the conversation that happens from our writing that we can let the world know how we feel.
@frelle–well I’m pretty new myself
I agree about faemom’s quote, it’s awesome!
Great post! When I first started reading blogs Dooce was an everyday read for me. But I didn’t even consider having a blog of my own until I found PW–she seemed like ‘everywoman’ to me and made me think that I could do it too. It’s funny because although they are both mommybloggers their blogs are so different from each other. I think it shows that the blogging community is big enough and diversified enough for every one to be involved.
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