A Quiet Moment

by beth on July 28, 2009

After I gave birth to D-man we had some spe­cial alone time in the hos­pi­tal. Hubby, myself, & D-man were hang­ing out wait­ing for the other kids to come up. They were with Hubby’s par­ents, get­ting ready to head over. We were so excited to have the kids come back up, to have our whole fam­ily together. I missed them so much.

Yet, I will admit I was so grate­ful to spend those quiet moments with just D-man & Hubby. I knew that when we got home it would change & the quiet moments would be filled with the sounds & move­ments of fam­ily life. But here in the hos­pi­tal, just like in the early morn­ing hours, it was still.

With each child’s first full day of life Hubby & I were able to have some time like this, due to the gen­eros­ity of fam­ily & friends. A time to enjoy the quiet & take each other, I drank in every his every fea­ture. Dur­ing this time some pho­tos were taken by a pho­tog­ra­pher, this is one of those photos.

I love this photo because when I look at it I’m reminded that I’m not alone. My hus­band is with me hold­ing my hand, sup­port­ing me, & help­ing me through every­thing. I am also reminded that I’m a mother of four chil­dren who need me, one who is still very new to this whole world & fam­ily life thing. Finally, when I look at this pic­ture I’m reminded of how great the time right after D-man’s birth felt. Even amidst all the pain, blood, & gore of after­birth it was great, that whole ethe­real momma glow had taken over. I couldn’t get enough of him, the kids, or Hubby. I was in Heaven, with that lit­tle hand grip­ping mine.


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1 Katie July 28, 2009 at 9:53 am

What a beautiful picture! I think it’s great that you and your husband got to have those one on one moments with each of your children.

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2 mikey July 28, 2009 at 10:01 am

Wow, that is a wonderful picture….thanks for sharing :)

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3 Shana Putnam July 28, 2009 at 10:13 am

That is a gorgeous picture!

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4 Becky July 28, 2009 at 11:45 am

That is the most special time ever~right after the baby is born. The bond you feel with your husband is so special a unique time. I swear, I almost want to have more babies just to feel that closeness with him again. It’s a little piece of heaven on earth.

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5 Lisa July 28, 2009 at 12:49 pm

hi! thanks for visiting me…..I love the picture you shared…awesome. when our little one was born 7 weeks early, we too had some extra alone time with him, before diving into life with 3 kids. So I get it! Thanks again!

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6 Lisa July 28, 2009 at 1:23 pm

LOVE that picture!

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7 Stacey July 28, 2009 at 3:12 pm

Ah the hormones that kick in when you really need them and you are convinced that you can do without sleep just as long as you have your baby to cuddle. Great photo! We decided against doing the in-hospital photographer because the packages looked cheesy. But that photo is excellent.

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8 Kasey@All Things Mamma July 28, 2009 at 3:57 pm

So beautiful! I got tears in my eyes! Love it!

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9 Ann July 28, 2009 at 5:23 pm

Hopping over from the Blog Hop.

What a sweet picture!

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10 Eileen July 28, 2009 at 6:39 pm

Crazy blog hop!!! Just nuts. 360? Wow.

I will never forget the after birth…. yuck!!!

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11 Shauna Howington July 28, 2009 at 7:21 pm

What a beautiful picture!

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12 MaranathaMom July 28, 2009 at 8:11 pm

we could have used some alone time & will fight for it in the future. i wanted to makeout w/DH but my mom & grandma were right there! eww!

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13 stacey July 28, 2009 at 8:33 pm

Beautiful Picture!

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14 KathyB! July 28, 2009 at 8:52 pm

Gorgeous photo, but the story behind it is even more beautiful!

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15 Nancy@ifevolutionworks.com July 28, 2009 at 9:36 pm

Beautiful photo and story!

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16 blueviolet July 28, 2009 at 10:22 pm

That is so sweet and such a wonderful memory.

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17 Gwyn July 29, 2009 at 12:15 am

Absolutely beautiful! I love this photo. Those first moments alone with the new one are truly special! Thanks for sharing my SITS day with me!

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18 Tara@Sticky Fingers July 29, 2009 at 10:21 am

What an absolutely lovely sentiment. And boy you don’t need to sell me on the magic of photographs – I take pictures of EVERYTHING. And I plan to share/annoy/embarass my children with copious amounts of photo albums when they get older!

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19 Sandy June 13, 2011 at 9:53 pm

Very nice picture indeed :)

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