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Anyone who has been around a colicky baby knows how stressful it can be, for both the parents and the baby. Having had my own colicky baby (more than once), I can attest with first hand knowledge how HARD it is to see your little one cry. And more stressful to NOT know what will comfort him. Researchers aren’t even sure what causes colic most think it’s related to stomach discomfort or grumblies in their tummies as the Lorax might say.
Colic can be especially stressful for a mom after being told by endless parenting books that you’ll just know how to answer your baby’s cries & off comfort for anything that ails, which is true to a point. Moms do learn their babies cries over time, it’s not instantaneous. Simply pushing a baby out of your vagina or having one airlifted from your womb via c-section doesn’t embody you with magical powers to decode all things baby. It takes time to get to know your baby. A mom isn’t a failure for not being able to do that instantaneously with her baby or to do it with a colicky baby.
Colic is hard to comfort.
Somethings that can help are: gentle rocking, music, white noise, nursing, if night weaning do it slowly because it’s a big change that can lead to discomfort, if bottle feeding makesure baby isn’t getting a bunch of air while eating, and the use of chamomile tea. Yes, you read the last line right babies taking their own version of high tea. I was happy to see that the NY Times Health section actually included it as well.
I know it seems like something some granola loving barefoot hippie momma would offer but research shows that the old wives tale about chamomile tea is true. Cultures worldwide use it as a tool to help calm a fussy baby or adult for that matter. Chamomile tea can help reduce discomfort & soothe tummy aches. About 1/2 a cup of the tea, up to 3 times a day. Of course you want to make sure it’s not hot when giving to a baby. Similar to giving formula you’d want it to be lukewarm. You can do a check by putting a little bit on your wrist and making sure the temperature isn’t above lukewarm. If it is let it cool off a little more. Again like formula don’t heat your water in the microwave, it can cause it too heat unevenly. Instead heat it on the stove.
You do want to check to make sure there isn’t a rare chamomile allergy present. It’s not common but it does happen. A simply small skin test can help with this. If skin turns red then do not use because your baby might have an allergy. Also, you can always check with your own doctor to make sure it’s OK for your baby (I’m not a medical doctor & I don’t play one on TV).
I have tried this.
It was a great comforter to my fussy babies, although I will admit it didn’t work all the time. It was another GOOD tool to have in my momma bag. Hubby found having more tools at his disposal to pull from helped him when he was trying to calm colic too, so Papas you can get in the baby calming groove too. Parenting is an equal opportunity employer.
Chamomile tea is also nice to curl up with at the end of the day and curl up I have. Chamomile tea is known to help promote relaxation, restful sleep, and any leftover bags are good to help reducing inflammation of the skin. A great helper for when you are dealing with late nights caring for a baby.
And in case you are wondering I only eat granola on certain days of week & usually wear shoes (we get a lot of snow).
Any tips/ideas on how to help with colic that worked from your own parenting tool bag?





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I’ve never heard chamomile tea for colicky babies. I bet my mom would’ve loved to hear about that when I was an infant. I didn’t have a colicky baby, but I am glad I read this…for the future or if anyone else I know happens to have a colicky baby.
I know that this doesn’t compare to motherhoodom, but I used to babysit a little girl.
…She WOULD. NOT. SLEEP. EVER.
Seriously, college kids could learn a thing or two about all-nighters from her.
Anyways, I remember that she once had a bit of a cold. 4am and she was *still* awake (and yes, I often took care of her until very early in the morning).
Woulda been nice to know about this then. :-p
I wish I had known that trick when my kids were babies. They were both colicky. It was misery. They got better when I stopped breastfeeding, but they still weren’t great. I just walked them, held them, rocked them and yes, sometimes screamed at them!
Question is, do you wear deoderant? That’s when you know you’re really a hippie!
My mom and dad told me that I was a colicky baby (of course I was just faking, I just like d to annoy them)
thanks for the tip! Who would’ve thunk?
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Another strategy is the colic hold:
Baby is drapped over your forearm -his head near your elbow, you hold his crotch or upper leg. This way you can hold baby close, rub back, walk around the house, switch arms as needed. It is supposed to be a good angle to position baby to help with digestion / any gas problems.
From someone who knows from colic, the hairdryer and a great swaddle was a g-dsend! Seriously! I lived with that hairdryer on, or a soothing CD that played a recording of a hairdryer, I kid you not! Thanks for the tip about the chamomile. I know I love it when I need some soothing, so I’m not surprised!
I don’t know if my oldest had colic or was just fussy? He was a hard to please baby. And…
he is still hard to please. I never know exactly what he wants to be happy. He is still hard to figure out.
I’m going to have to remember chamomile…if any of my future kids (who have yet to grace my womb) end up with colic…
Chamomile tea seems to be soothing for many things.
Ok I’m still trying to get over the hippy references, LOL!!! Made my night…now I can go to bed all happy!
None of mine had colic thank you Lord!!!
Thanks for the tip! My best tip was baby reverse crunches as it always seemed to be gas. Evan was bad and we had a house guest. A Tongan, the twelve kid of his family. You placed a screaming colicky baby in his arms, the baby would snuggle down and sleep. I suggest one of those too.
presley had such HORRID colic…thankfully its finally over….and we used the tea…it worked great!
We spent LOTS of time dancing on the porch…it was the only thing that worked.
Hi, there.
Stopping in from SITS. Enjoying your blog.
I actually had twins with acid reflux and colic. HORRIBLE.
Anyhoo… Gripe Water is something to try (and I found, sometimes helpful). I think it has lavender and fennel (all-natural) and has a calming effect. Quite pricey, though.
We also propped babies on their left sides at a 45-degree angle in their bouncy seats. That seemed to be the best position for sleeping. (And they did so until their feet were dangling off at 7 months old.)
Now they are 4.5 years old. I’m so glad we are past that stage.