Send in the Chamomile: Another Tool In the Colic Wars

by beth on September 2, 2009

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Any­one who has been around a col­icky baby knows how stress­ful it can be, for both the par­ents and the baby. Hav­ing had my own col­icky baby (more than once), I can attest with first hand knowl­edge how HARD it is to see your lit­tle one cry. And more stress­ful to NOT know what will com­fort him. Researchers aren’t even sure what causes colic most think it’s related to stom­ach dis­com­fort or grum­blies in their tum­mies as the Lorax might say.

Colic can be espe­cially stress­ful for a mom after being told by end­less par­ent­ing books that you’ll just know how to answer your baby’s cries & off com­fort for any­thing that ails, which is true to a point. Moms do learn their babies cries over time, it’s not instan­ta­neous. Sim­ply push­ing a baby out of your vagina or hav­ing one air­lifted from your womb via c-section doesn’t embody you with mag­i­cal pow­ers to decode all things baby. It takes time to get to know your baby. A mom isn’t a fail­ure for not being able to do that instan­ta­neously with her baby or to do it with a col­icky baby.

Colic is hard to comfort.

Some­things that can help are: gen­tle rock­ing, music, white noise, nurs­ing, if night wean­ing do it slowly because it’s a big change that can lead to dis­com­fort, if bot­tle feed­ing makesure baby isn’t get­ting a bunch of air while eat­ing, and the use of chamomile tea. Yes, you read the last line right babies tak­ing their own ver­sion of high tea. I was happy to see that the NY Times Health sec­tion actu­ally included it as well.

I know it seems like some­thing some gra­nola lov­ing bare­foot hip­pie momma would offer but research shows that the old wives tale about chamomile tea is true. Cul­tures world­wide use it as a tool to help calm a fussy baby or adult for that mat­ter. Chamomile tea can help reduce dis­com­fort & soothe tummy aches. About 1/2 a cup of the tea, up to 3 times a day. Of course you want to make sure it’s not hot when giv­ing to a baby. Sim­i­lar to giv­ing for­mula you’d want it to be luke­warm. You can do a check by putting a lit­tle bit on your wrist and mak­ing sure the tem­per­a­ture isn’t above luke­warm. If it is let it cool off a lit­tle more. Again like for­mula don’t heat your water in the microwave, it can cause it too heat unevenly. Instead heat it on the stove.

You do want to check to make sure there isn’t a rare chamomile allergy present. It’s not com­mon but it does hap­pen. A sim­ply small skin test can help with this. If skin turns red then do not use because your baby might have an allergy. Also, you can always check with your own doc­tor to make sure it’s OK for your baby (I’m not a med­ical doc­tor & I don’t play one on TV).

I have tried this.

It was a great com­forter to my fussy babies, although I will admit it didn’t work all the time. It was another GOOD tool to have in my momma bag. Hubby found hav­ing more tools at his dis­posal to pull from helped him when he was try­ing to calm colic too, so Papas you can get in the baby calm­ing groove too. Par­ent­ing is an equal oppor­tu­nity employer.

Chamomile tea is also nice to curl up with at the end of the day and curl up I have. Chamomile tea is known to help pro­mote relax­ation, rest­ful sleep, and any left­over bags are good to help reduc­ing inflam­ma­tion of the skin. A great helper for when you are deal­ing with late nights car­ing for a baby.

And in case you are won­der­ing I only eat gra­nola on cer­tain days of week & usu­ally wear shoes (we get a lot of snow).

Any tips/ideas on how to help with colic that worked from your own par­ent­ing tool bag?

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1 Joanne September 2, 2009 at 12:46 pm

I’ve never heard chamomile tea for colicky babies. I bet my mom would’ve loved to hear about that when I was an infant. I didn’t have a colicky baby, but I am glad I read this…for the future or if anyone else I know happens to have a colicky baby.

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2 Nyx September 2, 2009 at 1:17 pm

I know that this doesn’t compare to motherhoodom, but I used to babysit a little girl.

…She WOULD. NOT. SLEEP. EVER.

Seriously, college kids could learn a thing or two about all-nighters from her.

Anyways, I remember that she once had a bit of a cold. 4am and she was *still* awake (and yes, I often took care of her until very early in the morning).

Woulda been nice to know about this then. :-p

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3 Lee September 2, 2009 at 2:10 pm

I wish I had known that trick when my kids were babies. They were both colicky. It was misery. They got better when I stopped breastfeeding, but they still weren’t great. I just walked them, held them, rocked them and yes, sometimes screamed at them!

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4 Grand Pooba September 2, 2009 at 2:55 pm

Question is, do you wear deoderant? That’s when you know you’re really a hippie!

My mom and dad told me that I was a colicky baby (of course I was just faking, I just like d to annoy them)

thanks for the tip! Who would’ve thunk?

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5 lynn craig September 2, 2009 at 5:07 pm

stopping by through SITS>
Another strategy is the colic hold:
Baby is drapped over your forearm -his head near your elbow, you hold his crotch or upper leg. This way you can hold baby close, rub back, walk around the house, switch arms as needed. It is supposed to be a good angle to position baby to help with digestion / any gas problems.

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6 Andrea September 2, 2009 at 5:58 pm

From someone who knows from colic, the hairdryer and a great swaddle was a g-dsend! Seriously! I lived with that hairdryer on, or a soothing CD that played a recording of a hairdryer, I kid you not! Thanks for the tip about the chamomile. I know I love it when I need some soothing, so I’m not surprised!

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7 Eileen September 2, 2009 at 6:55 pm

I don’t know if my oldest had colic or was just fussy? He was a hard to please baby. And…

he is still hard to please. I never know exactly what he wants to be happy. He is still hard to figure out.

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8 Jessica September 2, 2009 at 7:37 pm

I’m going to have to remember chamomile…if any of my future kids (who have yet to grace my womb) end up with colic…

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9 Unknown Mami September 2, 2009 at 9:37 pm

Chamomile tea seems to be soothing for many things.

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10 Jane In The Jungle September 2, 2009 at 11:33 pm

Ok I’m still trying to get over the hippy references, LOL!!! Made my night…now I can go to bed all happy!

None of mine had colic thank you Lord!!!

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11 faemom September 3, 2009 at 12:52 am

Thanks for the tip! My best tip was baby reverse crunches as it always seemed to be gas. Evan was bad and we had a house guest. A Tongan, the twelve kid of his family. You placed a screaming colicky baby in his arms, the baby would snuggle down and sleep. I suggest one of those too.

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12 Alicia September 3, 2009 at 3:55 am

presley had such HORRID colic…thankfully its finally over….and we used the tea…it worked great!

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13 Sarah September 3, 2009 at 9:13 am

We spent LOTS of time dancing on the porch…it was the only thing that worked.

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14 Mary@The Writer's Block September 4, 2009 at 10:19 pm

Hi, there.

Stopping in from SITS. Enjoying your blog.

I actually had twins with acid reflux and colic. HORRIBLE.

Anyhoo… Gripe Water is something to try (and I found, sometimes helpful). I think it has lavender and fennel (all-natural) and has a calming effect. Quite pricey, though.

We also propped babies on their left sides at a 45-degree angle in their bouncy seats. That seemed to be the best position for sleeping. (And they did so until their feet were dangling off at 7 months old.)

Now they are 4.5 years old. I’m so glad we are past that stage.

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